Last year felt like one long uphill climb for my wife and me. My work depends heavily on the weather, and it had been one of the toughest years in recent memory. Every paycheck seemed to stretch less and less, and every bill felt heavier than the last. Then, one afternoon, I came home to news that made my heart sink even further — my wife had lost her job.
We tried to keep our spirits up, but the stress was constant. Each week became a balancing act of deciding what to pay now, what to delay, and how to make sure there was still food in the fridge. Groceries often went on the credit card, and the balance kept creeping up.
Then, one day at work, after a routine meeting, we played a small game for a $50 gift card. It was such a simple prize, but to me, it felt like a lifeline. I thought to myself, I need to win this — we could use it to buy groceries without going deeper into debt. But luck wasn’t on my side.
The woman sitting next to me won. And then, without hesitation, she turned to me, handed me the card, and said, “Congratulations on getting married.” I was stunned. In that moment, $50 felt like $500. That gift meant we could fill our pantry without touching the credit card for the first time in months.
It may sound small, but that kindness marked the beginning of a change. Slowly, things began to turn around. My wife found a job she loves, and my work picked up. This year has been one of my busiest, and together, we managed to pay off $13,000 in credit card debt. We’re not completely out of the woods, but for the first time in a long time, we can see the light at the end of the tunnel.
A couple of months ago, I told my wife I wanted to do something meaningful — something that could give another family the kind of hope we’d been given. I created a Facebook page called Love Thy Neighbor, Columbus GA, and asked people to nominate a family who could use a little extra help for Christmas.
We decided I would teach tennis — my profession — for 12 hours straight, donating every dollar I earned to the chosen family. Eventually, we learned about a 6-year-old girl named AmberLyn, who was being raised by her dad and grandfather. The moment we met them, I knew this was the family we were meant to help.
My goal was to raise $600. By the end, the total was over $1,700. We spent $600 on Christmas presents for AmberLyn — wrapping dollhouses, art supplies, books, and toys that would light up her Christmas morning — and gave the remaining $1,100 to her grandfather.
When he opened the card with the cash inside, Mr. Sanders’ reaction was unforgettable. His eyes widened, and then he let out a deep breath, smiling through the emotion. He shared that he had been dealing with medical issues but hadn’t been able to afford a doctor’s visit. Now, he could finally get the care he needed.
That moment — watching relief and gratitude wash over his face — reminded me why we do these things. We’ve been on the receiving end of kindness when we needed it most, and now, we had the chance to pass it on.
Christmas that year wasn’t just about gifts under the tree. It was about connection, hope, and the quiet but powerful truth that generosity has a ripple effect. A stranger’s $50 gift card set something in motion — and I hope our small act will keep that ripple going for someone else.